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March 19, 2025
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">上一期<span>71</span>期播客聊到了怎么寻找、建立导师关系网,这集播客节选了在我每个月的导师讨论会上的一部分交流分享。<span>In this month’s group mentoring session, our discussion focused on the topic of vulnerability at workplace.</span></p><span><br><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 02:40 你的父母、社会期待让你觉得<span>“You are not good enough</span>你还不够好<span>”</span>吗?</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 04:30 雨荷发言:刚开始工作把西装当成自我保护的防风外套,后来一点点加入个人色彩和风格,还是觉得在职场需要“防弹背心”,具体请听第<span>68</span>期播客《你的职业面具是什么颜色?上班穿西装还是防弹背心?》</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 07:30 build self-value from within, express feelings and needs first, this is not weakness, but a form of self-care and empowerment.</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 09:30 先说“我需要<span>XXX</span>”、“我喜欢你”的人是更能展示脆弱、连接他人,也是更有力量的。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 11:30 不在工作场合谈论自己的生活,你在害怕什么?</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 12:30 Navigate Organizational Change and Leadership Through Vulnerability and Honesty.</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 20:00 struggles with vulnerability and trust within the corporate ladder, challenges with imposter syndrome and manage team expectations and standards.</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 23:30 Prioritize values, boundaries and time management in leadership.</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 28:00 recognize others’ vulnerabilities and be more patient.</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 31:00 nuanced approach to vulnerability and openness in the workplace, emphasize the importance of balancing honesty with strategic discretion to maintain confidence and effectiveness</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 34:20 雨荷发言:align energy level with counterpart's energy level during conversations.</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 35:40 雨荷发言:不要给对方预设立场,<span>are you </span>projecting personal experiences / fears / insecurities and making assumptions onto others?</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 37:10 share experiences and failures with juniors is common, but setting boundaries becomes crucial when junior people don't respect the advice or perceive senior people as controllable.</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 39:40 Balance Transparency and Boundaries in Leadership</p>
February 18, 2025
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">这期播客故事丰富<span>+</span>干货满满!从职业规划、公司内的导师<span>coach</span>、公司外的导师<span>mentor</span>、升职聊到向上管理,请不要介意我们中英夹杂哦!香港的工作环境就是这样呢,播客文字也直接放了笔记哦!</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">雨荷第<span>35</span>期播客《<span>35. </span>导师<span>mentor=</span>老师<span>=</span>知心哥姐吗?》也讨论过职场导师的话题,文字版本也在雨荷公号上写过文章《新工作第<span>1</span>步不管其他,你要找到这个人!<span>https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/GJGW0BDSd-SsBNMW1509CQ?token=576696929&lang=zh_CN</span>》。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">本期嘉宾<span>Lawrence</span>在管理咨询行业工作,是公司内部的导师<span>coach</span>过好几个人。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>章节摘要:</b></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>03:30</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>有没有那么一刻,你觉得<span>“</span>我好需要一个导师或者教练呀<span>”</span>?</b></p><span><br><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>05:30</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>公司外面的导师<span>mentor VS </span>公司里面的<span>coach </span>有什么不一样呢?</b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">(1) 公司外的<span>mentor</span>,给你指明整个职场的大方向,比如行业趋势、职业发展路线。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">(2) 公司内的<span>coach</span>,主要就是围绕着公司的事儿,比如公司文化呀、怎么在公司里晋升。 </p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>15:30</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>公司给你安排的<span>coach</span>一般有什么任务呀,又得满足什么要求呢?</b></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>23:40</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>作为公司里的导师coach,他们在期待什么呢?</b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">(<span>1</span>)他们超想了解你们这些年轻一代的小朋友,现在的职业痛点呀、趋势呀,这样他们才能更好地吸引和留住人才呢。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>2</span>)每个人的想法都不同呀,你分享自己的见解和市场信息,这样大家就能一起进步,把信息差都补上啦。</p><span><br><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>30:30</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>如果给自己选导师或者教练,你会选什么样的人呢?<span><br></span></b>(<span>1</span>)最好不要选和自己工作直接相关的人当导师,这样能避免一些不必要的麻烦呢。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>2</span>)不管是相似背景的,还是不同行业转行的,甚至是性格不一样的人都可以成为你的导师。不用太在意方方面面都完全契合,这样反而能收获更广泛、更有趣的视角和经验分享呢。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>3</span>)选导师的时候,也要考虑一下你们之间的化学反应<span>chemistry</span>和风格<span>style</span>是不是匹配哦。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>4</span>)和跨行业、跨学科、不同职位的人交流,你会发现呀,每个人在差不多的阶段有很多共通点和挑战呢。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>5</span>)你可以提前规划好和导师的联系计划,也可以根据实际需要和问题情境来决定什么时候主动联系他们。比如遇到具体问题的时候,就会自然地想到有经验、有相似经历的人,和他们交流呀。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>6</span>)记得主动和导师保持联系哦,给他们反馈,分享自己行动后的效果,这样他们也会更有成就感、更有所收获呢。</p><span><br><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>46:50</span></b><span><br></span>嘉宾从公司内部的<span>coach</span>身上,印象最深刻的事情是:领导层不仅要业务能力强,还要能管理好和各方利益相关者的关系,以及团队里的人才保留问题呢。从老板的角度思考问题,能更好地理解和解决工作中的挑战呢。</p><span><br><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>51:00</span></b><span><br></span>雨荷从公司内部的<span>coach</span>身上,印象最深刻的一句话就是:<span>“</span>不要被自己的职级所局限。<span>”<br></span>(<span>1</span>)最开始雨荷是怎么理解的?主动寻找资源和人力,把事情盘活。即使超出职位要求,也可以提早获得经验和洞察力哦。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>2</span>)后来雨荷又这么理解的呢:所有经历和成长都会为我赋能,突破现有角色、职位和级别,不应该成为自我发展的限制。</p><span><br><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>01:00:10</span></b><span><br></span><b>找导师或者教练的途径可多啦:</b>学校、公司、社团组织、行业协会、领英<span>linkedin</span>、论坛活动,还有各种社交活动呀,都可以遇到,关键是要自己主动抓住机会哦!</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">别等到有问题再去找人,遇到问题或者需要建议的时候,能迅速想到合适的咨询对象<span>counsel</span>。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>01:02:30</span></b><span><br></span><b>雨荷另辟蹊径遇到一个好导师<span>:</span></b>雨荷通过一个读者引荐去面试的,雨荷并不想去那家公司。不过雨荷把面试当成了解市场动态和公司业务的途径。最后一轮的面试官给了我非常具体和实用的职业建议呢,甚至还列出了他的前同事名单和推荐猎头。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>01:10:30</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">真诚和做自己真的超重要呢,这样能帮助你匹配到更适合自己的人和事。有时候没有<span>offer</span>,也许面试官觉得你不会喜欢不合适,这样反而避免了经历不适合的工作和公司团队,那也是好事呀。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>01:17:10</span></b><span><br></span>别拒绝猎头的电话哦,这可是了解市场动态和职业需要的最新技能的机会呢。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>01:20:20</b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>升职之前,要提前做这些事儿呢:<span><br></span></b>(<span>1</span>)提前制定短期和中期计划,设定里程碑,然后不断跟进进程哦。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>2</span>)展示自己的个人成就,在不同场景中积极发声,增强上级对自己能力与贡献的认识呢。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>3</span>)主动跟进和沟通,形成更立体的个人形象,这样才能提供更针对性的建议和支持呢。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b><span>01:25:00</span></b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><b>内向的人<span>I</span>人向上管理小技巧:</b></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">(<span>1</span>)通过一次深入交流,做足准备,真诚且认真地和对方沟通,利用好每一分钟,加深印象,了解对方近期的想法及工作计划,这样就能减少后续的频繁跟进,后续只需通过简短汇报或者邮件保持联系哦。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>2</span>)把社交和工作任务分解成小步骤,这样可以减轻压力,提前打预防针呢。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>3</span>)小规模的跟进,比如电话或者邮件简短汇报。</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span><br></span>(<span>4</span>)在例如汇报演讲、公司论坛等等关键场合留下深刻印象,能维持和加深这些关系呢。</p>
February 5, 2025
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">这期播客是我的直播录音回放。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l <span>04:40 </span>发心要正,要有内在的自我驱动力,别人是能感觉到的。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 06:30 不要害怕暴露自己的目的和企图心。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 07:20 能站在高位的人更识货,更容易识别出好货。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 08:00 相信自己的直觉,人与人之间是有磁场和能量场的。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 09:10 我不觉得自己是个谁,我是个普通人,现在站在高位的人也是普通人。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l <span>12:00</span> 识别对方的信息盲区和兴趣点。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 13:20 带入我的优势领域,提供信息差来展示自己的价值和独特性。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 17:20 根据与对方的关系和认知,调整语气和语态。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l <span>19:30 </span>利用<span>AI</span>工具优化生活和工作:雨荷在生活场景喜欢<span>Google</span>出的<span>Gemini</span>,写文章喜欢用<span>Anthropic</span>出的<span>Claude</span>,语音速读总结喜欢用阿里巴巴出的通义,中文回复喜欢用<span>kimi</span>,从图片抓取文字喜欢用智谱清言。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l 22:30 向上社交的机会在于自己是否能够主动抓住并回应他人<span>,</span>积极主动地与人链接,要有正确的发心和内在驱动力,并感知对方是否愿意继续深入交流。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">l <span>25:00 </span>希望在心动的时候,无论有什么限制,无论有什么障碍,享受当下。</p>
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