by Lyndon and Breallyn Wesley
<p><strong>What happens when you try to build a creative life while also being a responsible adult? Disorder. But delightfully so.</strong></p><br><p>Join writer Breallyn and her husband Lyndon as they navigate the unpredictable, deeply satisfying, and occasionally absurd reality of making art while managing, well… everything else. From creative breakthroughs to imposter syndrome, from the rush of finishing a project to the frustration of starting over, they share an unfiltered look at what it really takes to transform inspiration into finished work.</p><br><p>Whether you’re a writer, musician, artist, or just someone who believes creativity is worth the effort, this podcast is for you.</p><br><p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Support us on Patreon</a></p><p><a href="https://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife</a></p><p>Free Membership available</p><br><p>Listen on your favourite podcast app - <a href="https://access.acast.com/rss/66bc1a4d8681753490f376cc/default" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://access.acast.com/rss/66bc1a4d8681753490f376cc/default</a></p><br><p>All music written and recorded by <a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Lyndon Wesley</a></p><p><a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.lyndonwesley.com</a></p><br><p>Produced at <strong>Morning Phase Recording Room</strong> on the traditional lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurrung and Bunurong Boon Wurrung Peoples of the Eastern Kulin. </p> <a target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href="https://open.acast.com/public/patreon/fanSubscribe/1812595">Get bonus content on Patreon</a><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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April 21, 2025
<p>In this episode, Breallyn and Lyndon reflect on how art weaves its way into life’s most significant milestones—especially ceremonies like funerals and weddings. What role does music, poetry, and ritual play when words fall short? How does culture shape or stifle our ceremonial expression? From Leonard Cohen at a funeral to the poetry of W.H. Auden, this is a tender and tangential conversation about grief, memory, and why even the least “artsy” among us still turn to creativity when life hits hardest.</p><h3><br></h3><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening!</p><p><strong>Support the show for free</strong> on <a href="http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife</a></p><br><p><strong>Visit our website</strong> <a href="http://www.paininthearts.life/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a></p><p><a href="http://www.paininthearts.life/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.paininthearts.life</a></p><br><p><strong>Recorded and produced at </strong>Morning Phase Recording Room </p><p>Original theme music by <a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Lyndon Wesley</a></p><p><a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.lyndonwesley.com</a></p> <a target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href="https://open.acast.com/public/patreon/fanSubscribe/1812595">Get bonus content on Patreon</a><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
April 14, 2025
<p>In this heavy yet heartfelt episode of Pain in the Arts, Breallyn and Lyndon step into deeper waters. They reflect on the life and legacy of their dear friend Salima, exploring the idea that every life — intentionally or not — becomes a living work of art. From grief to philosophy, from memory to meaning, they wrestle with whether we can curate our lives as we go, or only recognize the shape of it when we look back. </p><br><p><br></p><p>Thanks for listening!</p><p><strong>Support the show for free</strong> on <a href="http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife</a></p><br><p><strong>Visit our website</strong> <a href="http://www.paininthearts.life/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a></p><p><a href="http://www.paininthearts.life/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.paininthearts.life</a></p><br><p><strong>Recorded and produced at </strong>Morning Phase Recording Room </p><p>Original theme music by <a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Lyndon Wesley</a></p><p><a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.lyndonwesley.com</a></p> <a target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href="https://open.acast.com/public/patreon/fanSubscribe/1812595">Get bonus content on Patreon</a><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
April 7, 2025
<p>Is rigidly scheduled "deep work" the only path to creative productivity, or is there room for a more flexible flow? After sharing a few tales from the trenches of real life (including questionable op shop kettle repairs and kid-related gross-outs), Lyndon and Breallyn question the necessity of large, uninterrupted blocks of time for artistic pursuits. They explore the pressure and stress that comes when dedicated creative windows get unexpectedly shortened, contrasting the structured "deep work" concept with the often more fluid, inspiration-driven nature of making art.</p><br><p>The conversation delves into the importance of mental preparation and incubation, the frustration of losing momentum, and whether years of experience can enable meaningful creation even in shorter bursts.</p><br><p><strong>Chapter Markers:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>[00:00:00] Intro & Girls' Weekend Recap:</strong> Breallyn's word quota concerns, op shop adventures, and the saga of the $8 kettle.</li><li><strong>[00:07:15] Gross But True: Early Marriage & Kid Stories:</strong> Shared teabags, toothpaste tubes, electric toothbrushes, and the unforgettable backwash incident.</li><li><strong>[00:15:15] Topic Intro: Is Deep Work Necessary?:</strong> Abandoned topic lists, labeling everything (including gin), and introducing the core question about deep work's role in creativity.</li><li><strong>[00:23:00] Deep Work vs. Creative Flow:</strong> Lyndon's need for 3-hour blocks, the pressure of interrupted time, and comparing Cal Newport's concept to artistic practice.</li><li><strong>[00:31:45] The Importance of Preparation & Mindset:</strong> Discussing the mental "incubation" needed for creative projects and the difficulty of shifting gears when plans change.</li><li><strong>[00:40:00] Creating in Shorter Windows:</strong> Can years of experience make shorter bursts productive?</li><li><strong>[00:48:15] Finding Balance & Acceptance:</strong> Reframing time constraints, accepting different work modes, and the value of any creative time.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Full Transcript:</strong> <a href="https://paininthearts.life/index.php/transcript/ep-15-the-deep-work-dilemma-finding-focus-in-creative-chaos/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://paininthearts.life/index.php/transcript/ep-15-the-deep-work-dilemma-finding-focus-in-creative-chaos/</a></p><p>Thanks for listening!</p><p><strong>Support the show for free</strong> on <a href="http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Patreon</a></p><p><a href="http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.patreon.com/painintheartslife</a></p><br><p><strong>Visit our website</strong> <a href="http://www.paininthearts.life/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a></p><p><a href="http://www.paininthearts.life/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.paininthearts.life</a></p><br><p><strong>Recorded and produced at </strong>Morning Phase Recording Room </p><p>Original theme music by <a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Lyndon Wesley</a></p><p><a href="http://www.lyndonwesley.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://www.lyndonwesley.com</a></p> <a target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href="https://open.acast.com/public/patreon/fanSubscribe/1812595">Get bonus content on Patreon</a><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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