by 徐杰+张杰
聊恋爱，聊生活，聊女性成长的洞察和喜悦。两个公认好玩的人的电话粥。
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March 26, 2025
<p>“<a href="https://m.douban.com/group/topic/291302160/" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">乡愁是属于男人的奥德赛，逃离是刻进女性身体里的史诗</a>”——本期我们聊聊前段时间上映的《出走的决心》，聊聊女性在父权和夫权间的斡旋与逃离，聊聊母亲与女儿艰难的相处，聊聊代际间的女性主义。</p><p><br /></p><p>05:01 不同中的相似：说风凉话的父亲</p><p>18:34 在新疆创业时与本地人沟通，对方问：“你家男人呢？“ </p><p>29:45 伍尔夫《一间自己的房间》：空间、自由、不必经他人审视的生活</p><p>40:01 三辈女性的桎梏与挣脱</p><p>52:26 获得自己的支持网络，再去解救他人</p><p><br /></p><p>大家最近有看过什么激励人心的电影和书籍吗？欢迎在评论区分享给我们！<br /></p>
February 26, 2025
<p>“回避型依恋人格”描述了个体在处理亲密关系中的情感需求时，倾向于回避依赖、亲近和情感投入的状态。很多人都觉得自己的伴侣是回避型人格，很多时候无法感到被爱，也因此很容易将回避型人格和“渣男”、“冷漠”、“根本没爱过”划等号。</p><p>徐张声势的两位主播之一恰好认为自己符合回避型的许多特征。抛开如何定义回避型人格不谈，本期节目我们就来走近这位回避型人格的“疑似病例”，并讨论在“换人”之外，如何与ta们轻松地交谈、相处、相恋。</p><p>5:41 宇宙通用原则：多用“我”少用“你”，多陈述事实，少宣泄情绪</p><p>10:09 要用对“长期伴侣”的期待来要求当下吗？</p><p>13:58 吵架并不总意味着良好的沟通。对回避型人格而言，吵架全等于消耗和压力</p><p>24:23 亲密关系之外，如何和“回避型”同事/导师相处</p><p><br />29:11 爱的五种语言：了解ta如何表达爱 <a href="https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language" rel="ugc noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language</a>（英文原版）https://psycatgames.com/zh/quiz/find-out-what-your-love-language-is/ （中文）</p>
October 2, 2024
<p>这是一期去年录了但迟迟未剪的节目……坠入爱河的主播张杰早早开始考虑结婚事宜，却发现在美国结婚很多妻子都要改成丈夫姓？本期我们抽丝剥茧，聊一聊中美两国冠姓权的风俗，以及这些惯例背后的文化背景和时代变迁。（以及，既然是聊女权，当然少不了两位主播对父权制度的独家毒舌啦！）</p> <p><br /></p> <p>1:53 中美两国女权主义都在谈什么</p> <p>7:29 学术女性的特殊考虑：我的论文怎么办</p> <p>12:01 除了改姓的其他变通方法</p> <p>23:54 可参考案例：哈萨克族和蒙古族的姓氏传承</p> <p><br /></p>
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