by mollie adler
<p>Welcome to Back from the Borderline. I’m Mollie, and I don’t want to talk to your personality; I want to talk to your soul. I started this podcast in 2021 during a personal rock-bottom moment, searching for what was ‘wrong’ with me. Initially, I identified with the signs of borderline personality disorder (BPD), believing I’d found my answer. Many of my early episodes focused on BPD recovery, but I soon hit a wall—I wasn’t getting ‘better.’ My ‘redpill moment’ came when I began questioning the biomedical model of mental health, which pathologizes human behavior without addressing the root of our suffering.</p><br><p>Through my awakening, I discovered that many psychiatric theories lack scientific backing. I began to see less utility in viewing myself—or anyone else—as inherently disordered or dysfunctional. Following my intuition, I dove into depth psychology, myth, human consciousness, the mind-body connection, trauma’s impact, and esoteric literature. I realized that highly sensitive people like me, paralyzed by life’s existential questions, were spiritually starved and seeking meaning. This, I believe, is the unspoken root cause of our current collective “mental health crisis.”</p><br><p>I began sharing my journey, discussing childhood emotional neglect, spiritual emergencies, toxic shame, and the mother and father wounds. My listeners resonated deeply, shifting from asking ‘what’s wrong with me?’ to ‘what happened to me?’ My goal is to help you answer that question and write a new narrative, free from your past’s chains. You’ll learn how most self-sabotaging behaviors aren’t proof of disorder or dysfunction; they’re adaptive strategies from childhood that once kept you safe but now keep you stuck.</p><br><p>In a time where trustworthy resources on mental health and spirituality are hard to find, both topics have become commercialized, with influencers, therapists, and coaches profiting off recycled ideas and capitalizing on traumatized and sensitive people. I found myself a victim of this too. I can’t promise you a return to a mythical state of pre-trauma purity. I’m not a guru with a cure to sell. But what I can promise is that I am a fellow seeker who has walked—and is still walking—in your shoes.</p><br><p>Let this podcast be your companion on your hero’s journey—emotional alchemy in your pocket. And remember, anyone - <em>even you</em> - can come back from the borderline.</p><br><p><strong>Jump straight into my most popular multi-episode deep-dives: </strong></p><br><p>★ <a href="https://pod.link/1576242501/episode/539b6ee19950bef4fed5ce46451b02bb" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Childhood Emotional Neglect Series</a></p><p>★ <a href="https://pod.link/1576242501/episode/19396313f18ff93707c6b5acd323e3b2" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Toxic Shame Series</a></p><p>★ <a href="https://pod.link/1576242501/episode/896432107129bc6e8a688ecfde2b09ac" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Healing the Mother Wound</a></p><p>★ <a href="https://pod.link/1576242501/episode/034bb9d6bf55761f6038d8a6211bd615" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Healing the Father Wound</a></p><p>★ <a href="https://pod.link/1576242501/episode/7872a5494cf75d41883d35b22a9cc971" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Family Scapegoating Abuse Series</a></p><p>★ <a href="https://www.patreon.com/collection/656332" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Click here</a> to preview my BPD-focused episodes [available exclusively on Patreon]</p><br><p><strong>Explore the rest of my work and access a wealth of additional resources at </strong><a href="https://open.acast.com/networks/60e8deaefb090f0013116d6a/shows/60e8deaefb090f0013116d69/episodes/backfromtheborderline.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong>backfromtheborderline.com</strong></a><strong>. </strong></p> <p>acast+ <a target="_blank" rel="payment" href="https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline">https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline</a>.</p> <br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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July 23, 2024
<p>Join me for a transformative journey with Dr. Judy Tsafrir, a board-certified psychiatrist, Harvard Medical School faculty member, and a visionary in the field of mental health. A recipient of the 2024 Silver Nautilus Award for her groundbreaking book, "Sacred Psychiatry: Bridging the Personal and Transpersonal to Transform Health and Consciousness," Dr. Tsafrir brings a unique perspective shaped by her background as the daughter of Holocaust survivors. This deep personal connection to generational trauma has profoundly influenced her holistic approach to mental health care.</p><br><p>In this episode, Dr. Tsafrir discusses her transition from traditional to holistic psychiatry, integrating spiritual, environmental, and physical healing practices. She shares insights on the limitations of conventional psychiatry, which often relies heavily on pharmaceuticals and overlooks the holistic integration of the spiritual, emotional, and physical dimensions of health. Her comprehensive method includes extensive initial consultations to understand the deep-rooted causes of her patients' ailments, who often find her after being disillusioned with mainstream psychiatric approaches. Dr. Tsafrir is passionate about addressing Environmentally Acquired Illnesses (EAI), such as mold toxicity, a frequently unrecognized condition in conventional medicine with significant psychological and physical impacts. She elaborates on the extensive list of symptoms associated with mold toxicity and employs a multimodal approach to treatment, emphasizing diet, lifestyle changes, trauma healing, and community connection.</p><br><p>Moreover, Dr. Tsafrir engages with the existential questions that paralyze many of us—fears of death, impermanence, and loss. She criticizes societal tendencies to stigmatize those who confront these profound issues and praises the sensitivity needed to tackle such existential concerns. Throughout the episode, she discusses how embracing inevitable aspects of life such as aging, illness, and death can be transformative experiences. Tune in to gain invaluable insights into how the integration of heart, mind, body, and spirit can lead to a more fulfilling and healed life. Dr. Tsafrir shares strategies to foster resilience in a world facing ecological crises, offering a comprehensive look at how holistic practices can transform personal and global health. </p><br><p>✧ <a href="https://www.judytsafrirmd.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Click here</a> to connect with Judy via her website (<a href="https://www.judytsafrirmd.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.judytsafrirmd.com/</a>)</p><p>✧ <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Psychiatry-Transpersonal-Transform-Consciousness/dp/B0CB9G8699" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Click here</a> to learn more about or purchase her book “Sacred Psychiatry: Bridging the Personal and Transpersonal to Transform Health and Consciousness”</p><br><p><strong>Enjoyed this episode? Explore more as a Premium Submarine.</strong> Dive deep into hundreds of hours of ad-free exclusive content and full-length episodes on Patreon, including my original BPD recovery series, guided meditations, and much more. <a href="https://www.patreon.com/backfromtheborderline/collections" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Click here</a> to preview the premium collections you’ll unlock access to for as little as a couple of cups of coffee a month. Learn more and join at <a href="http://backfromtheborderline.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">backfromtheborderline.com</a>.</p><br><p><em>The information contained in this podcast episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment or consultation with a licensed mental health professional.</em></p> <p>acast+ <a target="_blank" rel="payment" href="https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline">https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline</a>.</p> <br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
July 18, 2024
<p>Does he actually love you, or is he just tolerating you for as long as it takes him to get what he REALLY wants? It's a jarring question, one that challenges the very foundation of romantic relationships. But it's precisely the kind of provocative statement that modern female dating influencers use to capture the attention of millions. These influencers, with their sharp advice and confident personas, have sparked a resurgence in dating strategies that many thought had been left behind in the past. They are telling women to make men chase, to withhold affection, and to use their feminine wiles to manipulate relationships in their favor. But is this truly empowering, or is it simply recycling toxic advice from decades ago?</p><br><p>In this episode, we'll dive deep into the fascinating world of modern female pickup artists. We'll explore how these influencers are repackaging old dating tactics under the guise of empowerment and financial independence. Drawing parallels to the notorious pickup artist culture of the past, we'll examine how these strategies echo the advice from the 90s best-seller "The Rules," a book that preached the art of playing hard to get. Through this journey, we'll uncover the striking similarities between these eras and how these tactics have been modernized to fit today's digital landscape.</p><br><p>Listeners can expect to learn not just about the history and evolution of these dating strategies, but also about their implications for modern relationships. We'll discuss the rise of influencers like SheRa Seven, whose advice to women includes withholding sex to keep a man interested and using reverse psychology to manipulate men into financial support. We'll also delve into the social and economic factors that make these strategies appealing today, from financial instability to the pervasive pressures of modern dating.</p><br><p>By the end of this episode, you'll have a comprehensive understanding of how old dating advice is being repurposed for a new generation. You'll gain insights into why these strategies are resonating with young women today and the potential pitfalls they may lead to. We'll challenge you to think critically about the advice you consume and to consider what truly empowers you in your relationships. So, buckle up and get ready for a deep dive into the world of modern female pickup artists and their outdated 90s dating playbook.</p><br><p><strong>UNLOCK THE FULL VERSION OF THIS EPISODE: </strong>visit <a href="https://www.patreon.com/backfromtheborderline" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.patreon.com/backfromtheborderline</a> to join the community on Patreon. From here, you'll be able to access all full-length (and ad free!) episodes of BFTB, unlocking hundreds of hours of additional bonus content.</p><p> </p><p><strong>CONTACT ME CHECK OUT MORE OF MY WORK: </strong>To read my Substack articles, follow me on socials, or access my Amazon book recommendation list, visit <a href="https://linktr.ee/backfromtheborderline/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">backfromtheborderline.com</a>.</p> <p>acast+ <a target="_blank" rel="payment" href="https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline">https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline</a>.</p> <br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
July 16, 2024
<p>In this hard-hitting episode, I sit down with Dr. Roger McFillin, a board-certified clinical psychologist, executive director of the Center for Integrated Behavioral Health, and host of the globally popular "Radically Genuine" podcast. Known for his fearless critique of the mainstream mental health system, Dr. McFillin exposes the detrimental consequences of psychiatric diagnoses and drugs, advocating for a deeper understanding of human suffering.</p><br><p>Dr. McFillin shares his journey from a disillusioned practitioner of evidence-based treatments to a vocal critic of the American mental health system. We discuss his "red-pill moment" while working in an in-patient child psychiatric unit, where he witnessed the heartbreaking reality of children being restrained and drugged. This pivotal experience led him to question the efficacy and ethics of psychiatric interventions and to explore the profound impact of the placebo effect in psychiatric drug studies.</p><br><p>In our conversation, Dr. McFillin highlights the hypocritical nature of psychiatric drugs being labeled as "medicine" when prescribed, yet still considered "drugs" when obtained elsewhere. He argues for the importance of finding the "story behind our suffering" rather than merely labeling and pathologizing it. Dr. McFillin also critiques the current mental health system, describing it as the "fast food of health care," prioritizing quick fixes over addressing the systemic issues underlying the mental health crisis.</p><br><p>We delve into his views on antidepressants, which he describes as potentially "one of the most lucrative scams in history." Dr. McFillin explains how our culture has "lost its language for suffering," and how focusing excessively on mental health can paradoxically harm our well-being. He emphasizes the need for a paradigm shift in understanding and addressing psychological distress.</p><br><p>Join me as Dr. McFillin shares his provocative insights and well-researched perspectives, challenging the status quo and advocating for a more compassionate, story-driven approach to mental health. This episode is a must-listen for anyone questioning the mainstream narrative on mental health and seeking deeper, more humane approaches to understanding and alleviating human suffering.</p><br><p><strong><em>✧ </em></strong><a href="https://www.drmcfillin.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong><em>Click here</em></strong></a><strong><em> to listen to + follow Roger’s podcast Radically Genuine</em></strong></p><p><strong><em>✧ </em></strong><a href="https://thecccollective.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong><em>Click here</em></strong></a><strong><em> to learn more about (or join) the Conscious Clinician Collective</em></strong></p><p><strong><em>✧ </em></strong><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RU4JP-OU_Ew" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><strong><em>Click here</em></strong></a><strong><em> to watch the video that was originally banned on YouTube mentioned in our discussion</em></strong></p><br><p><strong>CONTACT ME + UNLOCK PREMIUM: </strong>To join the Premium Submarines on Patreon (unlocking full + ad-free episodes), check out my sponsors and book recommendations, or contact me directly, visit <a href="https://linktr.ee/backfromtheborderline/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">backfromtheborderline.com</a>.</p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><em>Disclaimer: The information contained in this podcast episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for treatment or consultation with a licensed mental health professional.</em></p> <p>acast+ <a target="_blank" rel="payment" href="https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline">https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline</a>.</p> <br /><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>
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