by Aaron & Jenna Zint
<p>Aaron and Jenna have been married for over a decade and love talking to people about their relationships, the messiness, the struggle and the victories in all of it. If you're married or planning on it, you can expect 1) Tools for the growth of your marriage and you personally 2) Hope for a healthy marriage no matter what you've experienced up to this point 3) Laughter and comfort when you say, "That's totally us!" and "We've been there!" <br><br>If you've enjoyed our podcasts, <b>would you consider financially supporting the show?</b><br>We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps the Zints to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much!<br><br>http://patreon.com/TheHabitLab</p>
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June 13, 2024
<p>Don't be overwhelmed by your summer! <br/>You can balance all that's on your plate- while still hitting your hopes. <br/>Grab Jenna's mini course as your guide to: <a href='http://pillar.io/jennazint/checkout/e4d2a940-2048-11ef-b6c1-e7643c5ea2da'><b>Set-Up Your Summer </b></a><b><br/><br/>In this episode- </b>Jenna & Aaron talk about how you can do the same thing but with a different motivation- and it can shift everything. <br/><br/>What is your motivation? <br/>Are you telling yourself you are powerless & "have to do XYZ" because of your spouse? <br/>That's your sign your feeding resentment.<br/><br/>What if you simply switched your self talk & looked at all the ways it was an investment? You'd then be empowering yourself to make a choice to do it vs feeling forced.<br/><br/>Choosing your motivation- is a key to maturity. <br/>So what's your motivation? <br/>Are you doing this out of feeling forced? That'll feed resentment.<br/>Are you choosing to do this? That'll feed investment. <br/><br/>The choice is yours.<br/>Only you can control yourself. <br/><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>>>> <b>Would you consider financially supporting our shows? <<<</b><br/>We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.<br/><br/>Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!<br/><a href='http://patreon.com/TheHabitLab'>patreon.com/TheHabitLab</a><br/><br/>Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more. <br/><br/>Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!</p>
June 5, 2024
<p>Buy Jenna's mini-course: Setting-up Your Summer.<br/><a href='https://pillar.io/jennazint/checkout/e4d2a940-2048-11ef-b6c1-e7643c5ea2da'><b><click here></b></a><br/><br/>Dr. Gary Chapman's Love Languages concept and consequent books revolutionized our understanding of how we communicate, hear and receive love, especially in marriage. It became a tool we used constantly to better understand ourselves and our spouse. <br/><br/>And, we commonly misused this tool as a way to better serve ourselves rather than its original intent: to love others better.<br/><br/>This is what we'd call a user error. When the concept of love languages gets weaponized as a measuring stick for how your spouse is failing you, you invite bitterness and resentment in. <br/><br/>At the end of our life, we don't give an account for how well our spouse loved us. We give an account for how well WE learned to love. </p><p>>>> <b>Would you consider financially supporting our shows? <<<</b><br/>We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.<br/><br/>Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!<br/><a href='http://patreon.com/TheHabitLab'>patreon.com/TheHabitLab</a><br/><br/>Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more. <br/><br/>Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!</p>
May 30, 2024
<p>Aaron and Jenna begin a series titled "What I wish I knew" sharing what they wish they'd learned early in marriage. This first part dives into the topic of "urgency." Most conflicts in the early stages of relationships feel urgent. They become very high stakes when they don't need to be. Why? Because it's possible to be connected even when there is no resolution to the problem. <br/><br/>This brings us to the scripture from Ephesians 4:26 "...Do not let the sun go down on your anger..." or more commonly stated, "Don't go to bed angry." This scripture has been used as fuel for the sense of urgency, causing many couples to stay up well into the night attempting to hash out their problems. And yet, we're well aware that two sleepy, dysregulated people are not effective communicators. <br/><br/>You might ask, "Are you saying that we should go ahead and go to bed angry?" <br/><br/>We're saying that going to bed without a solution is not the same thing as going to bed angry. We believe that that scripture is more about not letting resentment and bitterness continue to fester, than it is about feeling an emotion at a certain time of day. <br/><br/>It's possible to go to bed not having a solution and to be connected at the same time. Being connected is what pushes out bitterness and resentment and it's not synonymous with having resolution in conflict.</p><p>>>> <b>Would you consider financially supporting our shows? <<<</b><br/>We set-up a secure way for you to do that. This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.<br/><br/>Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!<br/><a href='http://patreon.com/TheHabitLab'>patreon.com/TheHabitLab</a><br/><br/>Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more. <br/><br/>Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!</p>
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