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<p style="font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;color:#333333;font-weight:normal;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">这是一档由两位新晋小叔主持的生活休闲类节目，探索马马虎虎、零零碎碎的生活乐趣。<br /><br />在这里，我们带你轻松畅聊人生琐事，分享快意江湖的点滴。希望我们的对话能为你带来灵感，舒压解乏，化解无聊时光。<br /><br /><b>�收听渠道</b><br />小宇宙 | Spotify | 喜马拉雅 | 网易云音乐 | Apple Podcast<br /><br /><b>�回归活动</b><br />第一期节目将于年前1月26日上线，关注小红书并在评论区写下你曾许过的新年愿望，就有机会获得 Wen 和 Jason 挑选的新年礼物�！<br /><br /><b>点关注</b><br />@Wen @超圳点 <br /><br />我们未来将在小红书发布节目预告，并通知上线时间，不要错过哦！</p><span><br /></span>
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April 21, 2025
<p style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;" data-flag="subtitle"><span>【本期引言】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">最近有看到后台留言说：“你知道吗？我上个月在Dating App上的成功概率，比练出六块腹肌还难！”这句话突然让我们意识到，当我们谈论30+彩虹男性的约会生态时，早已不是一顿晚餐就能开始的浪漫叙事，这根本是场需要精密计算的生存游戏。</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>想象一下：你精挑细选的照片在</span><span>五</span><span>个App上同时推送，每次右滑都是</span><span>2</span><span>.</span><span>9</span><span>9</span><span>人民币</span><span>的沉没</span><span>代价</span><span>；周五晚上的</span><span>清吧</span><span>约会，人均</span><span>2</span><span>00的账单换来的可能只是对方一句'</span><span>好像不太适合</span><span>'；更别说那些标榜'高端匹配'的付费软件，年费够买</span><span>两张</span><span>往返</span><span>曼谷</span><span>的</span><span>机票</span><span>，但匹配到的</span><span>高质量</span><span>用户</span><span>可能连你的</span><span>简介</span><span>都没看完就点了下一</span><span>位</span><span>用户</span><span>...</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>这期节目我们</span><span>请</span><span>到了</span><span>Gathr</span><span>的</span><span>主理人</span><span>Eric</span><span>，</span><span>他</span><span>将化身情感精算师，拆解三个残酷公式：时间货币化的成本核算、从匹配到见面的成功概率、以及付费墙背后的爱情</span><span>奔现</span><span>率。当约会变成需要ROI评估的资本游戏，我们是该升级装备继续氪金，还是该直接掀翻这场被算法操控的赌局？</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>主播：Wen Jason</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>嘉宾：Eric</span></p><span><br></span><p style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;" data-flag="subtitle"><span>【本期播客timeline】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>00:32 欢迎老朋友Gathr主理人Eric</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>01:33 跨城约会惨变 “快餐爱情”：大老远跑去对方地盘，结果被塞进快捷餐厅——我的时间只配吃预制菜？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>04:36 </span><span>遇到酒托？直接开撕：勇敢的人先享受世界，怂的人先付天价酒单——别让恶势力赚走你的窝囊费！</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>09:48 </span><span>软件聊骚三个月，见面十分钟下头：当对方喜欢的歌手风格和你差太远，你会明白网聊的每一秒都是沉默成本</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>14:34 又是一个</span><span>金融巨鳄男：一边吹嘘年薪百万，一边AA还要抹零——爹味和穷酸味混合的顶级生化武器。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>19:18 </span><span>谁该买单？年龄/性别/角色绑架，钱规则比摩尔斯电码还难破译</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>28:00 </span><span>当代约会入场券：</span><span>除了固定的约会消费外，为了满足市场需求，增加竞争力，维护形象也是一笔不菲的开销，比如美黑</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>34:14 30岁后，</span><span>Tinder三倍年费，Grindr天价会员——年龄歧视连算法都懒得掩饰。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>37:53 </span><span>杭州→上海，最后一秒被鸽，中国铁路比男人更有契约精神</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>42:42 年轻时因为面子而花费的额外金钱、时间、和身体，</span><span>终将成为蚂蚁花呗的泪</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>46:24 </span><span>一天三场约会，不知道是在忙什么</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>53:56 本期结束 记得评论分享你的想法哦 撒花</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>片头曲：</span><span>Crème Brulée </span><span>by David Archuleta</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>片尾曲：</span><span>End of the World </span><span>by Miley Cyrus </span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【B站｜公众号：漂流银河系】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【嘉宾小红书：</span><span>Eric Yang</span><span>】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【公众号搜索——定制类交友平台：Gathr】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【主播小红书：@Wen | @超圳点 | @漂流银河系】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【收听渠道：小宇宙 | </span><span>Spotify</span><span> | 喜马拉雅 | 网易云音乐 | </span><span>Apple Podcast</span><span>】</span></p><span><br></span><p style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;font-weight:normal;" data-flag="backup"><span>【反馈、投稿、自荐，欢迎联系我们】</span></p><p style="font-size:14px;line-height:24px;color:#999999;word-break:break-all;font-weight:normal;" 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April 7, 2025
<span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>人们常说的</span><span>三十</span><span>而立</span><span>，</span><span>仔细想想</span><span>是因为青春</span><span>时期</span><span>所积累到探寻有关职业</span><span>的最大潜力，</span><span>在财富积累上基本可以保持自给自足的状态</span><span>。</span><span>但</span><span>现实生活中</span><span>的</span><span>我们</span><span>（也泛指</span><span>和主播们</span><span>有类似</span><span>经历</span><span>的</span><span>听友们）</span><span>，该如何在经济漩涡中找到</span><span>自洽</span><span>的</span><span>方式</span><span>？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>有</span><span>数据显示，30-35岁男性平均负债率已达月收入的18倍。</span><span>在</span><span>职场黄金期撞上中年危机，工资卡上的数字</span><span>怎么</span><span>都</span><span>追不上房贷、</span><span>有关</span><span>父母医疗账单的</span><span>也在</span><span>增长</span><span>。我们</span><span>决定</span><span>开诚布公</span><span>地</span><span>谈谈</span><span>自己的</span><span>真实</span><span>财务</span><span>状态</span><span>：</span><span>似乎</span><span>每个月</span><span>都陷于</span><span>破产的</span><span>边缘</span><span>。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>当</span><span>单一收入结构的脆弱性</span><span>和</span><span>被</span><span>“</span><span>体面生活</span><span>”</span><span>所</span><span>隐性</span><span>绑架</span><span>，</span><span>似乎还有一场更大</span><span>的</span><span>暴风雨</span><span>在</span><span>等着我们</span><span>：</span><span>少数族群的</span><span>养老生活</span><span>。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>主播拆解</span><span>之道</span><span>：主业之外哪些副业能真正产生现金流？职场天花板压下来，我们该如何提前构筑财务护城河？欢迎带着你的工资条和信用卡账单，和我们一起寻找破局之道</span><span>。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>主播：Wen Jason</span></p><p style="font-size:17px;line-height:30px;margin:10px 0px;color:#333333;font-weight:900;" data-flag="subtitle"><span>【本期播客timeline】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>00:</span><span>3</span><span>8</span> <span>从白莲花</span><span>度假村</span><span>亚洲女孩</span><span>引发</span><span>的</span><span>养老</span><span>焦虑</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>04:08 想</span><span>倒卖</span><span>演唱会</span><span>门票</span><span>却砸在</span><span>手里</span><span>，</span><span>两个人偏财运</span><span>均为</span><span>0</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>06:23 一个杭州普通职场牛马的三大</span><span>收入来源</span><span>和开销，</span><span>业余</span><span>博主</span><span>每月</span><span>能有多少收入</span><span>，</span><span>这些收入中</span><span>又有</span><span>多少</span><span>可以</span><span>自己</span><span>支配</span><span>？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>14:57 </span><span>3</span><span>0</span><span>岁</span><span>无存款</span><span>出国</span><span>留学</span><span>，</span><span>高额</span><span>的</span><span>债务</span><span>让</span><span>理财养老</span><span>这个</span><span>事情</span><span>难度</span><span>升级</span><span>，</span><span>每天</span><span>最</span><span>开心</span><span>的</span><span>事情</span><span>就是</span><span>看着</span><span>债</span><span>额</span><span>逐渐</span><span>减少</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>21:</span><span>35 </span><span>一个</span><span>讽刺</span><span>恐吓</span><span>，</span><span>一个</span><span>鸡汤</span><span>激励</span><span>，</span><span>两种</span><span>妈妈</span><span>锻造出</span><span>同一种</span><span>赔钱货</span><span>儿子</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>24:25 彩虹养老的特点，满足基础生活保障是不够的，还要考虑旅游、娱乐、性生活，实际一点想一下，性生活是不是确实需要一笔资金准备？ </span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>28:29 我的消费种类又大又硬，到底是谁会这么形容啊？ </span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>33:42 那些真实变成老妹的瞬间，让人怎么不感叹，真的要开始思考养老了 </span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>37:09 </span><span>理财</span><span>的</span><span>第一步</span><span>，</span><span>除了</span><span>基础</span><span>的</span><span>一些</span><span>定期</span><span>储蓄</span><span>外</span><span>，可以</span><span>逐步</span><span>进行</span><span>一些</span><span>小额</span><span>投资</span><span>，</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>40:10 </span><span>对于</span><span>小众群体</span><span>来说</span><span>，</span><span>给自己</span><span>和</span><span>父母</span><span>上几份</span><span>合理</span><span>的</span><span>商业保险</span><span>会减少</span><span>未来</span><span>很</span><span>大</span><span>的</span><span>赡养</span><span>压力</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>44:08 </span><span>长期</span><span>护理</span><span>保险</span><span>，</span><span>拯救</span><span>老单身</span><span>狗</span><span>们</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>47:42 </span><span>祝</span><span>听到</span><span>这里</span><span>的</span><span>听友</span><span>见</span><span>水</span><span>就</span><span>发</span><span>，</span><span>老</span><span>了</span><span>性生活</span><span>不用花钱</span><span>！</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>4</span><span>9:48 </span><span>本期结束</span><span> 记得评论分享你的想法哦 撒花</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>片头曲：</span><span>Twilight Zone </span><span>by</span><span>Ariana Grande</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>片尾曲：</span><span>Die With A Smile</span><span> by Lady Gaga & Bruno Mars</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【B站｜公众号：漂流银河系】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【主播小红书：@Wen | @超圳点 | @漂流银河系】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="backup"><span><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/f1c6-audiofreehighqps/C5/67/GKwRIRwLyThRAAn28wORa8ds.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/f1c6-audiofreehighqps/C5/67/GKwRIRwLyThRAAn28wORa8ds.png?op_type=0" 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March 24, 2025
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>凌晨一点零三分，窗外小区的灯光终于变成毛玻璃的色块，你终于划开第十七次新加天菜的朋友圈。他在网红咖啡店打卡，而你在点赞前忽然停住——这已经是几次，你一个人躺在床上，听见内心的声音：这样做真的有意义吗？</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>做客本期播客的是一位呼声很高的返场嘉宾：化学赵老师。被称为"大天菜"的他，其实也有着单身状态的独一份烦恼：为什么人一定要找对象。社交媒体上的形象和讲堂上的他给人的感觉总是干净而严谨。殊不知这正是“渣男”的一套保护外衣。在谈及情感状态是否需要被填满的时候，却有一个话题是我们值得去思考的：情感会有疲惫期，那么单身的疲惫期又是什么造成的呢？当我们开始习惯用dating app的滑动代替心跳，将亲密关系拆解成可量化的KPI，却在某个加完班的雨夜，对着打车软件上"紧急联系人"的空白栏愣神。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>主播：Wen Jason</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>嘉宾：赵老师</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【本期播客timeline】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>00:</span><span>4</span><span>3</span> <span>化学老师</span><span>穿</span><span>什么</span><span>样</span><span>的</span><span>睡衣</span><span>？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>03:46 单身两年却被网友误会</span><span>，</span><span>哪里</span><span>来的</span><span>甜甜</span><span>恋爱</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>05:35 长相老实，私底下却是渣男 </span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>08:53 要对象来干嘛？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>11:46 </span><span>被贴上</span><span>渣男</span><span>标签后</span><span>，</span><span>越发</span><span>觉得</span><span>自己</span><span>很耽误</span><span>别人</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>14:56其实和他们本就不是以交往为目的开始</span><span>，</span><span>所以</span><span>都</span><span>很直接</span><span>的</span><span>结束</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>17:26 只有想认真相处的见面才算是约会，其他只能算认识认识 </span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>20:</span><span>1</span><span>2</span><span> 现在我不会长久的暧昧，感觉时刻都在变</span><span>，这是没有结果</span><span>的</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>24:51 你在选择别人的时候，也同时在被对方选择</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>28:54 终于被抓到化学老师的真实分手原因</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>30:13 给wx好友打</span><span>标签</span><span>、</span><span>备注</span><span>评论</span><span>，</span><span>根据</span><span>标签</span><span>聊</span><span>定制化</span><span>内容</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>34:51 迁就是否等同于妥协</span><span>，</span><span>长期伴侣</span><span>相处</span><span>过程中</span><span>是否</span><span>会</span><span>牺牲</span><span>自我</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>38:20 不想耽误彼此时间是永恒的原因</span><span>，</span><span>多少</span><span>次</span><span>分手</span><span>的</span><span>原因</span><span>都是</span><span>这个</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>41:48 天菜</span><span>不会</span><span>被</span><span>拒绝</span><span>的</span><span>原因</span><span>到底是什么</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>47:46 主持人的约会大失败</span><span>，</span><span>这</span><span>能怪谁</span><span>呢</span><span>？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>53:49 听友提问：高中生谈恋爱老师能发现吗？</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>56:50 听友提问：在事业单位如何应对没边界感的领导</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>59:34 </span><span>本期</span><span>结束</span><span> 撒花</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>片头曲：Born Again</span><span> by </span>Lisa (feat. Doja Cat & RAYE) </p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>片尾曲：Abracadabra by Lady Gaga </span></p><span><br></span><hr style="border:0px;margin:20px 0px;background:#ddd;display:inline-block;width:100%;border-style:solid;height:1px;"><span><br></span><br><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【B站｜公众号：漂流银河系】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【嘉宾小红书：他们喊我赵老师】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【主播小红书：@Wen | @超圳点 | @漂流银河系】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【收听渠道：小宇宙 | Spotify | 喜马拉雅 | 网易云音乐 | Apple Podcast】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>【反馈、投稿、自荐，欢迎联系我们】</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>邮箱：[email protected]</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>WeChat: kk_dd007（备注：漂流银河系）</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/6e9a-audiofreehighqps/0E/6F/GAqhntALtx_EAAn28wOFLHsU.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/6e9a-audiofreehighqps/0E/6F/GAqhntALtx_EAAn28wOFLHsU.png?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/6e9a-audiofreehighqps/0E/6F/GAqhntALtx_EAAn28wOFLHsU.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="1000" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/6e9a-audiofreehighqps/0E/6F/GAqhntALtx_EAAn28wOFLHsU.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="186.66666666666666"><br><img data-key="1" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/c25b-audiofreehighqps/7B/94/GAqhntALtx_MAAG6hgOFLIbp.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/c25b-audiofreehighqps/7B/94/GAqhntALtx_MAAG6hgOFLIbp.png?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/c25b-audiofreehighqps/7B/94/GAqhntALtx_MAAG6hgOFLIbp.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="319.1666666666667" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/c25b-audiofreehighqps/7B/94/GAqhntALtx_MAAG6hgOFLIbp.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="59.57777777777778"><br></p>
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