by Laura & Lyn
This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse
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April 15, 2025
<p dir="ltr">In this eye-opening and practical episode,a seasoned family lawyer helps to unpack the 10 most frequently asked questions about child custody in Australia.</p> <p dir="ltr">Whether you're fresh out of a breakup, preparing for court, or trying to figure out what your rights are, this episode is packed with general education and emotional clarity every separated parent needs. From understanding how courts decide who gets custody, to navigating situations involving domestic violence, high-conflict co-parents, and parenting plans this episode helps you gain a better understanding of what's what in child custody issues.</p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">🎧 Listen to This Episode If You...</h3> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Are recently separated and unsure where to start<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Want to learn how to understand your parental rights in court<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Are co-parenting with someone difficult, absent, or controlling<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Are trying to protect your child from a harmful environment<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Need clarity around parenting plans vs court orders<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Are preparing to go to family court<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Feel overwhelmed by legal jargon and want straight answers<br /> <br /></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr">⚠️ Trigger Warning:<br /> This episode includes discussions about family and domestic violence.</p> <p dir="ltr">📌 Legal Disclaimer:<br /> This podcast provides general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family law case is different, and you should always seek professional legal support specific to your circumstances.</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">📌 Episodes Mentioned in This Episode:</h3> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Official Parenting Orders: Do I really need them?<br /> 🎧 <a href= "https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xeIIHEDcFPKwtVZ54fM67?si=vwYKXPZHRRCISokEuc2D-Q"> https://open.spotify.com/episode/7xeIIHEDcFPKwtVZ54fM67?si=vwYKXPZHRRCISokEuc2D-Q<br /> <br /></a></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Case Mentioned:<br /> Isles & Nelissen [2022] FedcFAMC1A 97 – an “unacceptable risk” family court case<br /> <br /></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">📚 Links & Resources</h3> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">🧾 Word Salad Checklist (Download) - https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/wordsaladchecklist</p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">📞 1800 RESPECT – Support for family and domestic violence<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">📞 Lifeline (13 11 14) – Mental health and emotional support<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">📞 000 – In case of immediate danger<br /> <br /></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">⏱️ Timeline Summary</h3> <p dir="ltr">00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warnings</p> <p dir="ltr">01:02 Understanding Child Custody</p> <p dir="ltr">02:08 Immediate Steps After Separation</p> <p dir="ltr">03:19 Consent Orders vs Parenting Plans</p> <p dir="ltr">04:33 High Conflict Situations</p> <p dir="ltr">05:56 What is the Best Interests of the Child</p> <p dir="ltr">15:07 What is the difference between Legal vs Physical Custody</p> <p dir="ltr">18:39 Domestic Violence and Custody</p> <p dir="ltr">23:33 Surgical Risk and Legal Analogies</p> <p dir="ltr">24:21 Can My Child Decide Who They Want to Live With?</p> <p dir="ltr">24:26 Webinar Invitation: Empower Yourself Through Divorce</p> <p dir="ltr">25:40 Can I Relocate with my child and Custody: Legal Insights</p> <p dir="ltr">27:14 What can I do if my ex is Threatening of International Relocation</p> <p dir="ltr">27:54 Joint Custody: Pros, Cons, and Realities</p> <p dir="ltr">30:18 Proving an Ex is Unfit for Custody</p> <p dir="ltr">31:26 How do you Modify and Enforce Custody Arrangements</p> <p dir="ltr">33:30 How to Deal with Manipulative and Controlling Exes</p> <p dir="ltr">34:08 High Conflict Custody Situations</p> <p dir="ltr">36:20 Avoidant Exes and Custody Challenges</p> <p dir="ltr">38:08 Final Thoughts and Support Resources</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">🔖 Hashtags (for Social Media)</h3> <p dir="ltr">#ChildCustody #FamilyLawAustralia #ParentingAfterSeparation #HighConflictDivorce<br /> #CoParenting #FamilyCourt #LegalParenting #DomesticViolenceAwareness<br /> #SharedParenting #CustodyBattle #DivorceSupport #ConsentOrders #ParentingPlan<br /> #FamilyLawHelp #ProtectiveParenting</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <p dir="ltr">📌 Final Disclaimer:<br /> Nothing discussed in this episode should be taken as legal advice. Please speak with a qualified legal professional who understands your personal situation and jurisdiction.</p> <p><strong id= "docs-internal-guid-ab486fdb-7fff-8a3e-d562-b79032451776">🎙️ Episode Title: Top 10 Child Custody Questions Answered (What Parents Need to Know)</strong></p>
April 9, 2025
<p dir="ltr">Feeling trapped in limbo while waiting for your property settlement to go through? You’re not alone — and there may be a way out.</p> <p dir="ltr">In this episode, I’m joined again by my mum, Lynette Galvin — a family lawyer with over 35 years of experience — and we’re talking about a powerful but underused legal option called early distribution of funds.</p> <p dir="ltr">This is a game-changer for anyone financially stuck during separation. Whether you’re separated under one roof, struggling to pay rent, or locked out of joint funds, this episode is full of practical ideas to help you understand some options. We’ll walk through how it works, who it can help, how to ask for it, and what to do if you’re facing financial abuse or coercive control.</p> <p dir="ltr">If even one person hears this and realizes they can ask for access to their own money — then this episode has done its job.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Legal Disclaimer: This is not legal advice please see a lawyer before making any decisions.</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses financial abuse and coercive control. If you find this triggering, please contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 or 1800RESPECT.</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">🎧 Listen to this episode if…</h3> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">You’ve separated from your partner but are still waiting for the property to be divided<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">You’re struggling financially and wondering if you can access money now<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">You’re living under the same roof as your ex and things are tense or unsafe<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">You’ve heard “you just have to wait” from a lawyer or friend<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">You’re dealing with financial abuse or coercive control<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">You want to understand your rights and feel more empowered in the process<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">You’re looking for a way to shift the balance in negotiations or court<br /> <br /></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">⏱️ Episode Timeline</h3> <p dir="ltr">0:00 - A warm welcome and why this episode matters if you’re stuck during property settlement<br /> 2:00 - What is early distribution of funds, and why more people should know about it<br /> 4:00 - Who qualifies? Scenarios from both wealthy and struggling couples<br /> 5:45 - Why financial abuse and coercive control may be stopping you from accessing your money<br /> 8:00 - The new definition of family violence and how it can work in your favour<br /> 10:30 - How to structure your request so it’s fair and has a better chance of success<br /> 12:45 - The mindset shift: realizing you’re entitled to ask<br /> 14:30 - What the courts consider when deciding to release funds early<br /> 16:30 - Step-by-step: how to apply and what documents you’ll need<br /> 19:45 - Going to court: what to expect, what to say, and how to prepare<br /> 23:30 - Common misconceptions and sneaky tactics to watch for<br /> 26:45 - Can superannuation be released early? (Spoiler: unlikely!)<br /> 28:00 - Risks of early distribution: What you need to know before you ask<br /> 29:30 - How releasing funds can shift power and break negotiation deadlock<br /> 31:45 - How to approach this with different ex-partner personality types in Divorce<br /> 36:00 - The quote Mum wants on a cushion: “If you don’t ask, you don’t get.”</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">🔗 Links & Resources</h3> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">📘 Definition of Family Violence – Family Law Act (Section 4AB)<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">🧠 <a href= "https://thedivorcecourse.com.au">Free checklists and resources</a> — mediation prep, disclosure, and more<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">🎧 Episode on Balancing the Unbalanced in family law negotiations</p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><a href= "https://open.spotify.com/episode/1YbIll7Ti69WGd9OpbmjDb?si=JlxhC1wBTkaOILAIVYdYaw"> https://open.spotify.com/episode/1YbIll7Ti69WGd9OpbmjDb?si=JlxhC1wBTkaOILAIVYdYaw<br /> <br /></a></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">🎧 Episode on Response to Initiating Application (for court document guidance)</p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><a href= "https://open.spotify.com/episode/2JV5mcqDB7Wu6lEAFVO2w1?si=-VMYcvlpSSqxn-RrDeJgCg"> https://open.spotify.com/episode/2JV5mcqDB7Wu6lEAFVO2w1?si=-VMYcvlpSSqxn-RrDeJgCg</a></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Definition of Family Violence</p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr"> https://www.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/fla1975114/s4ab.html</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">📝 Closing Thoughts</h3> <p dir="ltr">This episode is your reminder that you have options — and you don’t have to wait until the final property settlement to start rebuilding your life. If you’re in a tough spot financially, please talk to your lawyer about an early distribution. And if they say no, ask why.</p> <p dir="ltr">You deserve to feel safe and supported through this process.</p> <p dir="ltr">If you found this episode helpful, we’d be so grateful if you could rate, follow, and share the podcast. You never know who else out there might need this information right now. 💛</p> <p><strong id= "docs-internal-guid-e9abbc0d-7fff-b0e1-9758-5c4832363136"><br /> <br /></strong></p>
April 2, 2025
<p dir="ltr">Are you? Learn about the signs of economic or financial abuse, hear some real-life examples of how economic abuse manifests in relationships and practical steps you can take to protect yourself and your financial future. Find out how it is legally recognized under the Australian Family Law Amendment Act 2024, and why it’s considered a form of coercive control. Also find out about the new laws effective from June 2025 and how they impact property settlements and financial disputes. </p> <p dir="ltr">🚨 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses economic abuse and coercive control, which may be distressing for some listeners. If you need support, please contact 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) or Lifeline for confidential advice and assistance.</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">🎧 Listen to This Episode If You:</h3> <p dir="ltr">✅ Feel like your partner controls your money or financial decisions<br /> ❓ Have been told you’re “bad with money” or pressured into signing financial documents<br /> 💡 Are worried that financial abuse is continuing after separation<br /> 🛡 Want to understand how the new legal changes address economic abuse<br /> 📚 Need advice on documenting financial control and seeking help<br /> 💔 Are experiencing financial stress during or after separation</p> <p dir="ltr">DISCLAIMER: THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE just a discussion about Australian Family Law and Divorce or DeFacto Separation.</p> <p><strong> </strong></p> <h3 dir="ltr">Key Topics Discussed in This Episode:</h3> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">What is Economic and Financial Abuse?<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Signs and Red Flags of Economic Abuse<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">How Economic Abuse Is a Form of Coercive Control<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Legal Changes: Economic Abuse Recognized as Family Violence<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Impact on Property Settlements and Financial Outcomes<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">How to Protect Yourself from Economic and Financial Abuse<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Support Services and Resources for Victims</p> </li> </ul> <p><strong> </strong></p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">📌 Links & Resources Mentioned:</h3> <p dir="ltr">🔗 1800 RESPECT – Support for family and domestic violence:</p> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Website: <a href= "https://www.1800respect.org.au">1800respect.org.au<br /> <br /></a></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Phone: 1800 737 732<br /> <br /></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr">🔗 National Debt Helpline – Financial counselling and support:</p> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Website: <a href= "https://www.ndh.org.au">ndh.org.au<br /> <br /></a></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Phone: 1800 007 007<br /> <br /></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr">🔗 Men’s Referral Service – Support for men using or experiencing violence:</p> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Website: <a href= "https://www.mrs.org.au">mrs.org.au<br /> <br /></a></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Phone: 1800 943 539<br /> <br /></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr">🔗 Understanding Coercive Control – Australian Government Resource:</p> <ul> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Website: <a href= "https://www.ag.gov.au/coercivecontrol">Australian Government Resource on Coercive Control<br /> <br /></a></p> </li> </ul> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">🎙️ Related Episodes:</h3> <ol> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Recognizing Coercive Control: How to Protect Yourself https://open.spotify.com/episode/12jgZw1IwIFLK5oPlp0its?si=CvxdW85YRJ6e9pX1katgPQ<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Navigating Financial Disclosure in Family Court https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">Understanding Emotional Abuse: Signs, Impact, and Recovery https://open.spotify.com/episode/2bSCQ3JdcU4xxW7D4LJUxG?si=ujMpXOD8QzeLbeA_rlC4Ew<br /> <br /></p> </li> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation">How to Tell Your Story and Communicate Coercive Control in Your Documents https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Ci0M4DqznBf1L1kcZM3vY?si=rO-DnFixQqKTPMCbkpe3jA</p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">⚠️ Emergency Contacts & Support Services:</p> <p dir="ltr">💜 Women’s Shelter Service: Call 1800 811 811<br /> ⚖️ Legal Aid: <a href="https://www.legalaid.gov.au">Visit Legal Aid Website<br /></a> 📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): Call 13 11 14<br /> 👨👦 Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978<br /> 👧 Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800<br /> 🚨 National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732<br /> 🖤 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <p dir="ltr">⏳ Episode Timeline:</p> <p dir="ltr">00:00 Introduction to Economic Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">00:24 Recognizing the Signs of Economic Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">01:09 Trigger Warning and Support Resources</p> <p dir="ltr">01:57 Understanding Economic Abuse in Family Law</p> <p dir="ltr">02:28 Examples of Economic Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">04:23 Subtle Forms of Financial Control</p> <p dir="ltr">12:12 Post-Separation Financial Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">15:25 Questions to Identify Financial Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">21:30 Coercive Control and Financial Dependence</p> <p dir="ltr">24:29 Understanding Coercive Control and Financial Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">25:34 Real-Life Examples of Financial Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">27:06 Legal Definitions and Changes in Family Law</p> <p dir="ltr">30:37 Proving Financial Abuse in Court</p> <p dir="ltr">32:03 Steps to Escape Financial Abuse</p> <p dir="ltr">40:39 Support and Resources for Victims</p> <p dir="ltr">42:53 Encouragement and Final Thoughts</p> <p dir="ltr"> </p> <hr /> <p> </p> <h3 dir="ltr">Are You a Victim of FINANCIAL Abuse? Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore & What the New Laws Might Mean for You</h3> <p> </p>
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