by 曹导导
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">Hi 我们是关一辣和曹导<br />是一对在一起快五年的情侣<br />这档节目是我们的深夜聊天<br />有八卦也有思考<br />让我们一起透过亲密关系的视角<br />来追逐宇宙的蝴蝶<br />希望我们可以成为大家生活餐桌上的<br />单山蘸水<br /><br /></p>
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March 7, 2025
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>00:50</span></a><span> 你怎么都学不会的事是什么</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>05:21</span></a><span> 偷偷去做智力测试</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>06:31</span></a><span> 我26年人生中感受最好的一件事</span></p><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/497f-audiofreehighqps/41/33/GKwRIMALoF_aAAaF2wN1_sCZ.jpg!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-origin="http://fdfs.xmcdn.com/storages/497f-audiofreehighqps/41/33/GKwRIMALoF_aAAaF2wN1_sCZ.jpg" data-preview-width="140" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/497f-audiofreehighqps/41/33/GKwRIMALoF_aAAaF2wN1_sCZ.jpg!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-large-height="421" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/497f-audiofreehighqps/41/33/GKwRIMALoF_aAAaF2wN1_sCZ.jpg!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_small" data-large-width="750" data-preview-height="78"><br><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>09:44</span></a><span> 天赋跟你打招呼</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>15:37</span></a><span> 面对“天赋”这件事</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>17:26</span></a><span> 天赋的兑现，也是一条路径依赖</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>18:31</span></a><span> 三四岁的时候，我逼着家人给我出口算题</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>19:57</span></a><span> 高中之前，连走神是什么我都不知道</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>22:38</span></a><span> 天赋降临时有如神助</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>23:34</span></a><span> 学生时代的自信带着我走到30多岁</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>26:04</span></a><span> 30岁之后发现的第一个没天赋的事情</span></p><img data-key="1" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/65e0-audiofreehighqps/83/B8/GKwRIRwLoF_aAAJ43wN1_sEH.jpg!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-origin="http://fdfs.xmcdn.com/storages/65e0-audiofreehighqps/83/B8/GKwRIRwLoF_aAAJ43wN1_sEH.jpg" data-preview-width="140" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/65e0-audiofreehighqps/83/B8/GKwRIRwLoF_aAAJ43wN1_sEH.jpg!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-large-height="419" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/65e0-audiofreehighqps/83/B8/GKwRIRwLoF_aAAJ43wN1_sEH.jpg!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_small" data-large-width="750" data-preview-height="78"><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>31:38</span></a><span> 天赋与天分的区别</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>39:29</span></a><span> 天赋的性价比</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>41:09</span></a><span> 投资在兑现天赋上的每一笔钱，都在给未来打开更大的路，而这可能是最值得的投资</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>42:23</span></a><span> 我们女人就是要赌</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>44:26</span></a><span> 我希望你的枕边人永远英勇</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>49:10</span></a><span> 把自己当自己的创业项目去做！</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>49:44</span></a><span> EGO是个会让自己得到很多益处的东西</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>本期主播：</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;">@关一辣 （小红书）</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;">@曹导 （小红书）</p>
February 19, 2025
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>自从妈妈搬来上海做自媒体，我们三个人除了很新的家庭关系，又多了一层同事关系。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>女儿&女友&妈妈</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>三个女人唱大戏</span></p><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/83b7-audiofreehighqps/B7/71/GKwRIUELi4o_AD0cKANp4mru.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-origin="http://fdfs.xmcdn.com/storages/83b7-audiofreehighqps/B7/71/GKwRIUELi4o_AD0cKANp4mru.JPG" data-preview-width="140" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/83b7-audiofreehighqps/B7/71/GKwRIUELi4o_AD0cKANp4mru.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-large-height="1125" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/83b7-audiofreehighqps/B7/71/GKwRIUELi4o_AD0cKANp4mru.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_small" data-large-width="750" data-preview-height="210"><br><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>这么紧密复杂难处理的关系，我们之间难免会有摩擦和没有说出口的不满。</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>于是我们召开了这次家庭会议，先夸夸，再骂骂，所有不满恩怨情仇一次性说完。</span></p><img data-key="1" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/34fe-audiofreehighqps/C7/87/GKwRIW4Li4pAAD4pIgNp4mvv.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-origin="http://fdfs.xmcdn.com/storages/34fe-audiofreehighqps/C7/87/GKwRIW4Li4pAAD4pIgNp4mvv.JPG" data-preview-width="140" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/34fe-audiofreehighqps/C7/87/GKwRIW4Li4pAAD4pIgNp4mvv.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-large-height="500" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/34fe-audiofreehighqps/C7/87/GKwRIW4Li4pAAD4pIgNp4mvv.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_small" data-large-width="750" data-preview-height="93"><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>01:01</span></a><span> 和平会议规则</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>02:32</span></a><span> Round 1 小关to曹导 “你回避的责任，都要我帮你承担”</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>10:16</span></a><span> Round 2 曹导to一张 “工作起来怎么能不讲道理的急眼呢“</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>12:19</span></a><span> Round 3 一张to小关 “你出门的时候，永远都要别人等”</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>15:54</span></a><span> Round 4 曹导to小关 “工作忙起来，你的强势像是瞧不起人“</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>17:05</span></a><span> Round 5 一张 to 曹导 “妈妈有时候，只是心理上依赖你”</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>30:37</span></a><span> Round 6 曹导 to 一张 “不要总是问‘接下来呢’，做自己工作的主人”</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>32:03</span></a><span> Round 7 小关 to 一张 “工作中高语境，我们都听不懂呀”</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>37:45</span></a><span> 用先夸夸再提意见的方式，纠正自己记忆的偏差</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><a style="color:#4990E2;text-decoration:none;"><span>38:25</span></a><span> “全是工作上的优点，也说说生活上的，让我觉得自己没那么工具“ - 小关强行索要5个夸夸</span></p><img data-key="2" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/4e21-audiofreehighqps/65/3C/GKwRIaILi4pCAE9BwwNp4mz-.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-origin="http://fdfs.xmcdn.com/storages/4e21-audiofreehighqps/65/3C/GKwRIaILi4pCAE9BwwNp4mz-.JPG" data-preview-width="140" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/4e21-audiofreehighqps/65/3C/GKwRIaILi4pCAE9BwwNp4mz-.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-large-height="500" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/4e21-audiofreehighqps/65/3C/GKwRIaILi4pCAE9BwwNp4mz-.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_small" data-large-width="750" data-preview-height="93"><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>家可以是讲理的地方</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>家可以是自由表达感受的地方</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>希望我们的奇特关系可以给大家带来一些趣味畅想</span></p><img data-key="3" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/b3f6-audiofreehighqps/66/80/GKwRIasLi4pEADWdOANp4m5u.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-origin="http://fdfs.xmcdn.com/storages/b3f6-audiofreehighqps/66/80/GKwRIasLi4pEADWdOANp4m5u.JPG" data-preview-width="140" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/b3f6-audiofreehighqps/66/80/GKwRIasLi4pEADWdOANp4m5u.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_large" data-large-height="500" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/b3f6-audiofreehighqps/66/80/GKwRIasLi4pEADWdOANp4m5u.JPG!op_type=4&upload_type=attachment&device_type=ios&name=mobile_small" data-large-width="750" data-preview-height="93"><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>本期主播：</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>@yizhang一张（小红书）</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>@关一辣（小红书）</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>@曹导（小红书）</span></p><span><br></span><br>
December 25, 2024
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">圣诞快乐狗友们！我们终于又更新了！</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><br>为了让感情更进一步，我们分别做了心理咨询，想在强势vs回避，黏人vs冷静的感情模式里，改变一下自己。<br><br>02:43 “我听起来是一个很坏的人，又强势又冷静”“那我听起来也不咋样，又黏人又回避”<br>06:13 “我的冷静，是因为我只在乎当下的，线下的感受，我不在乎手机里的人“<br>07:42“而我需要跟很多人保持联系”<br>11:17 “你觉得你强势不？”“这也是咨询师问我的第一个问题”<br>13:35 直接还是强势？大部分人没能力去匹配你的直接<br>14:00 清晨寻猫事件，信息的传达方和接收方可能有很大差异<br>22:00 人要接受自己的一些特质，人和人很不一样<br>34:02 从哪一刻开始，我变得柔软：肯德基零钱事变<br>36:53 从哪一刻开始，我变得强势：火龙果被啃事变<br>41:28 想证明友情的努力，有可能变成微型霸凌吗？<br>48:01 观点的碰撞，像烟花大会<br>53:08 每天许一个愿望，也有有一天你就能实现一下呢<br>57:37 “女人你生来注定被我吸引”“女人你的强势就是你给我下的蛊”<br>58:09 心理咨询的意义：让自己重新爱上自己<br><br>�关于阁楼<br>Glowe阁楼是一个专注于提供线上心理咨询服务的App，平台咨询师100%持证或心理科班毕业，在此基础上还需要通过笔试、面试、模拟个案等5层筛选，通过率不足3%，专业可靠。�Glowe阁楼的不同之处在于：一次咨询包含50分钟视频/语音+5天留言，性价比超高，适合长期咨询。50分钟作为正式咨询的部分，5天的留言作为咨询师收集来访信息的工具，帮助来访和咨询师更好的建立信任，提高咨询效率。<br>�Glowe阁楼App已上线各大应用商城，欢迎下载使用；如果对咨询有疑问，可以询问App首页的咨询助理，希望阁楼可以给你提供一个安全专业的心理休息区。<br>�特别听友福利<br>a. 赠送3位听友200元的优惠券（仅限双周方案使用），可以留言你对心理咨询的感受与想法，我们将在评论区进行挑选赠送；<br>b. 下载Glowe 阁楼的App，注册时使用我们的播客专属邀请码「zzyg」，也就是庄周与狗拼音首字母，可以享受100元优惠券，也可以点击下方链接直接领取哦<br>https://hybrid.glowe.cn/mobileV2/privateInvitationCode?invitationCode=zzyg<br><br></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">本期主播：</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">@关一辣（小红书）</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">@曹导（小红书）</p>
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