by 豆子、朱弟
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>是一档由两个不是很熟的女生 豆子 与 朱弟 瞎聊天的节目，播客名就和我们的心态一样，既然工作已经很辛苦了，播客</span>做得很差也没关系，开心最重要！</p>
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March 6, 2025
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>三年前，我们聊过一次「孤独」的话题。当时我们说，一个人吃饭、旅行、生活，既孤独又快乐，它是一种感受自己与天地万物共存的自然状态，清醒、自由。而今天再谈孤独，自由职业的朱弟和北欧留学的豆子，都有了一些新的体会。我们关注与人相处、反复思量后却步的「孤独」，身处异乡、无人可诉的「孤独」，以及试图承认孤独背后「示弱」的那一部分心情。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>1:55 自由职业的孤独<br></span>6:12 和人磨合太费心力啦<br>9:59 分享日常的前提：有重叠的生活空间<br>13:16 并非只有高质量对话才能缓解孤独<br>15:05 在团体中有一种强烈对比下的孤独<br>18:47 乡愁：被「非母语」语言笼罩的孤独<br>22:56 食物承载的乡愁与归属感<br>28:00 和家人想法不同也很孤独<br>34:51 恰恰在跟人交流时感到孤独<br>36:47 承认自己孤独总有点羞耻？<br>40:54 想太多的我们，走了十步才到别人的开头</p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>（温馨提示：如果不习惯咱的超慢语速，建议1.25倍速收听）</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>BGM：</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>我们别时和见时不同-饭碗的彼岸</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>阳光明媚的早晨我迟到了-饭碗的彼岸</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>封面：撑很</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>剪辑：</span><span>牙锐</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>shownotes：豆子</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>热烈庆祝大差不差全网突破90万播放！目前可在喜马拉雅、小宇宙、Apple Podcast、Spotify、网易云、QQ、汽水儿听到《大差不差》，欢迎大家在评论区与我们唠嗑、打赏，或在Apple给个五星好评~</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;"><span><br></span>想加听友群也可以在这里找到我们 (择一添加，记得备注)↓</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"> <br><img data-key="0" src="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/119d-audiofreehighqps/53/4C/GAqh9sALnsuzAAUK0wN0p-GP.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" alt="" data-origin="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/119d-audiofreehighqps/53/4C/GAqh9sALnsuzAAUK0wN0p-GP.png?op_type=0" data-large="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/119d-audiofreehighqps/53/4C/GAqh9sALnsuzAAUK0wN0p-GP.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_large" data-large-width="750" data-large-height="447.7611940298507" data-preview="http://imagev2.xmcdn.com/storages/119d-audiofreehighqps/53/4C/GAqh9sALnsuzAAUK0wN0p-GP.png!op_type=4&device_type=ios&upload_type=attachment&name=mobile_small" data-preview-width="140" data-preview-height="83.5820895522388"></p>
October 21, 2024
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>我们曾在第五期时聊过「客气」，因为朱弟和豆子就是两个彼此很客气、内心有较强边界感的人。而在北欧，自诩为「精神北欧人」、边界感超强的淡人的豆子，在真正的北欧人面前就是小巫见大巫。据说，瑞典人的友情都是在童年时期建立并维持到老的，也就是说，不出意外的话成年后的他们甚至不需要交新的朋友！难怪都说北欧人像「椰子」，怎么敲都不开。这一期「跨洋季」，我们就从北欧人的边界感聊起：</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>.</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>02:08 在北欧交朋友真的很难<br></span>05:39 无法靠「一起讲坏话」拉近关系<br>10:59 论北欧人的社交距离<br>12:36 平等地不care每一个陌生人<br>14:39 同为个人主义，美国和北欧怎么像两个极端<br>16:44 詹特法则：「不要以为你很特别」<br>21:37 small talk在北欧人眼里是dead talk?<br>22:43 侵入别人边界的化学反应<br>29:32 酒精让寡言的北欧人变身哈哈哈<br>31:00 芬兰语的「kalsarikännit」：穿着内裤在家喝酒<br>38:58 瑞典的Lagom文化：强调适度、刚刚好<br>45:26 避免文化中心主义，也不要谄媚<br>48:00 边界感会不会与抑郁症也有关系？<br> .</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>封面：撑很<br></span>剪辑：朱弟<br>shownotes：豆子</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal">.</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>热烈庆祝大差不差全网突破60万播放！目前可在喜马拉雅、小宇宙、Apple Podcast、Spotify、网易云、QQ、汽水儿听到《大差不差》，欢迎大家在评论区与我们唠嗑、打赏，或在Apple给个五星好评~</span></p>
September 12, 2024
<p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>阔别三个月，我们终于又回来啦！8月的时候，豆子踏上了去北欧留学的旅程，接下来不出意外的话「大差不差」都将是一个跨国录制的状态，这也是我们开启新的主题系列「跨洋季」的一个契机。在这一期当中，豆子将会分享工作后留学的一些思考和经验，非常适用于也有点点留学念头萌芽的听友，或是对当下生活有些困惑的朋友，希望你能从中找到自己想要的答案。</span></p><span><br></span><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>3:37 工作后想要留学的动机是什么<br></span>6:39 好像年近三十又会到一个岔路口<br>9:38 情绪稳定建立在经历丰富的基础上<br>15:25 不同动机对应不同的选校思路<br>24:18 「留学」给国外旅居套了一个名号<br>29:02 越来越多工作不顺的人想要留学？<br>42:57 怎么完全DIY留学申请<br>48:50 花掉几十万留学值不值？<br>52:43 说「羡慕」除了客套还有什么<br>55:56 朱弟和豆子就像花洒的两种模式<br>57:48 玄学能给人慰藉的地方</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>有关提及：伊拉斯谟计划</span></p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>封面：撑很<br></span>剪辑：朱弟<br>shownotes：豆子</p><p style="color:#333333;font-weight:normal;font-size:16px;line-height:30px;font-family:Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;hyphens:auto;text-align:justify;" data-flag="normal"><span>热烈庆祝大差不差全网突破80万播放！目前可在喜马拉雅、小宇宙、Apple Podcast、Spotify、网易云、QQ、汽水儿听到《大差不差》，欢迎大家在评论区与我们唠嗑、打赏，或在Apple给个五星好评~</span></p>
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